Handfasting is a beautiful, symbolic act that has been part of marriage traditions for centuries. Whether you’re drawn to its Celtic roots, its visual impact, or simply the romance of “tying the knot,” a handfasting ceremony is a meaningful way to personalise your wedding. As a celebrant working across the region, I’ve seen a huge rise in couples looking for a north west handfasting ceremony that reflects their love story and heritage.
Recently, I had the pleasure of performing a handfasting at the stunning Shottle Hall in Derbyshire. The rolling countryside, historic architecture and warm atmosphere created the perfect setting for a ritual that blends tradition with modern celebration. It reminded me just how powerful this symbolic gesture can be especially when woven into a ceremony that’s completely unique to the couple.
What Is Handfasting?
Handfasting is an ancient ritual in which a couple’s hands are wrapped with ribbons or cords to symbolise unity, commitment and the binding of two lives. Historically, it formed part of Celtic and Pagan wedding traditions, but today it’s embraced by couples of every background who want something personal and inclusive.
It’s also wonderfully flexible. You can choose colours that have meaning for you, incorporate family members, or even create a multi-strand cord that represents different parts of your journey together. This makes it ideal for couples looking to add a heartfelt, visually striking moment to their north west handfasting ceremony.
Why It’s Perfect for Weddings in the North West
The North West is home to so many characterful and authentic venues from rustic barns and scenic outdoor spaces to elegant halls and stately homes. A handfasting feels completely at home in these settings. It suits relaxed, boho style ceremonies just as well as classically romantic ones.
Whether you’re planning your wedding in Lancashire, Manchester, Cheshire, Cumbria or just over the border in Derbyshire, a north west handfasting ceremony can blend beautifully with the landscape, the atmosphere and your personal style.
Personalising Your Handfasting
As a celebrant, one of my favourite parts of creating ceremonies is the crafting of bespoke elements, rituals that reflect who you are and what matters to you. With a handfasting, this might include:
• Choosing ribbons in your favourite colours
• Including rainbow strands to celebrate pride and inclusivity
• Inviting loved ones to place a ribbon each
• Using cords that represent friendship, family, strength or unity
• Creating vows spoken before, during or after the binding
Every couple’s story is different, which means every north west handfasting ceremony should feel unique too.
Handfasting at Shottle Hall
This photo captures exactly why I love this ritual, the emotion, the symbolism and the shared focus in the room. Shottle Hall, with its Derbyshire views and elegant spaces, is a wonderful example of how a handfasting can enhance a ceremony, rather than replace any traditional elements. You can still exchange rings, say vows and sign certificates, while adding a moment that everyone will remember.
Making Your Ceremony Truly Yours
If you’re considering a north west handfasting ceremony, I’d love to help craft something that feels warm, inclusive and deeply personal. Handfasting is more than a visual moment, it’s a promise, a connection, and a celebration of everything you bring into your marriage.